Yeah, I'm one of those, I don't expect help or much of a solution for my problems type of person =x

WE DONT LEAVE OUR PEOPLE ( or bugs with collars ) BEHIND

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Sgt Dan "Coop" Cooper
A03/TQ1.0.72144E1
UKCM 501st Regt. 1st Batt. The Bucketheads

"Civies We are Leaving"

Keep the collar rex dont let these comments get to you i no it might be hard i spent years getting this kind of hassle and im sure alot on here have for not being classed as normal you stay exactly as you areno changes nope nope nope we love you the way you look now flail over here and have a hug

To show extra support i am going to buy a collar a pink one and wear it at drops with rex im sure that will divert unwanted attention anf collars are cool especialy spikey ones

As someone who actually IS a lesbian, I have gotten my share of crap from more people than I can count throughout my entire life. But you know what? To hell with them... most people are idiots and not worth the energy to get upset over. Nobody can hurt you unless you let them, and those people simply aren't worth it. I once had a psychology instructor in college who said "whenever you deal with someone who does something that upsets you, stop for a second and rate on a scale of 1 to 10 just how important that person really is to you... if they don't rate at least a 5 then to hell with them!" Good advice in my opinion.

Keep doing what makes you happy and don't let the idiots get to you Abi!

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Capt. Beale, Gwenydd M., U.S.C.M.
A01/TQ1.0.02128E1
Cmdr. U.S.S. Nemesis

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Rex, I've been in your shoes, at least in terms of being mistaken for a man in costume. I do a Snowtrooper with the 501st and not a damn person seems to realize I'm a woman. You do it for you.

Everyone else has really said it pretty well. Girl, you just have to let your insides match your outsides, and be the bad-ass chick I know you can be!

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"...a geeky kinda dorky kinda nerdy kinda gurl...and I like it!"

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Quite a few of us have come out as trannies of late, it's true!

Transatlanticsexuals

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Hmm, alternative? OK. Not trying to assert anything here other than that people should live their own lives without trying to please every yahoo, yutz, and yokel out there... And I've been "out" for many years. =p

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Capt. Beale, Gwenydd M., U.S.C.M.
A01/TQ1.0.02128E1
Cmdr. U.S.S. Nemesis

Dont sweat it, Rex.

As of next monday, Amber will be in my posession and there'll be a second girl bug in the Wall, although Ill no doubt confuse the hell outta some folk. Mandy's suggested getting her a collar [no idea what kind yet] and Ive got plans to include other feminine traits. Maybe Weyland Yutani UK [Northern Division] is raising female Xenos for some nefarious purpose.

Haters gon' hate.

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MSgt Samantha 'Boltie' Watters
Chief Medical Officer, UKCM
1st Batt. 42nd Regiment - Hadrian's Wall

Area 52 Bioweapons division - Amber T. Alien


"Harsh"

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Fair enough, but it didnt seem to be a requirement of joining the Forum. So I didn't mention it until a situation presented itself in which it had relevance to the discussion of being supportive of another member being harassed over who she was and being referred to as "gay".

You seem concerned. Does my being open about it bother you?

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Capt. Beale, Gwenydd M., U.S.C.M.
A01/TQ1.0.02128E1
Cmdr. U.S.S. Nemesis

Rex, I'm actually very surprised that you'd get bad comments. If I saw an Alien at a show with a pink collar, I'd think "Excellent! A girl Alien". That's about it. Maybe ask to get a picture with you. If someone thought you were a man, as soon as you say "I'm a girl", I'd expect them to say "Oh, sorry, I thought you were male". I don't really see what there is to hassle you about.

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I thought the collar was kind of funny, espeically with it being an option to put on your Xeno in A:CM.

I'm all for telling people to fuck off. Seriously, I am. But I am also about picking your battles. In the end, it comes down to what you can live with and what is going to give you the least amount of stress emotionallly and psychologically. If you can handle confrontation, and literally telling someone to go f**k themselves, and then back it up if you have to...then keep the collar on. If you aren't, but have thick skin and don't care (and I don't think this is you since this is bothering you), then keep the collar on.

But, if you aren't...then maybe try going to a few events without the collar on and see how that works (if you are able).

And don't worry about your body type...we are ALL insecure. We ALL have imperfections. Just comes down to getting comfy in your own skin (or your xeno's). Once you do, people can sense the confidence rolling off of you and you are no longer a target, you are an alpha.

I see a UKCM armour addition coming on... pink throat guards all round troops!

Spat... can you oblige?

Nobody messes with our Abi... that's our job. You ignore em Rex... tossers all!

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I find that highly offensive, everyone knows this years colour is lavender

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SSgt Kris "Bloodsucker" Kobus, VAS.
A09/TQ2.0.12136E1

ROFL!!

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Capt. Beale, Gwenydd M., U.S.C.M.
A01/TQ1.0.02128E1
Cmdr. U.S.S. Nemesis

That's scary Baz I came up with the same idea earlier today! I was on one of my ALL Day Driving jobs so lots of "thinking time".

Rex Feck 'Em All! As many have already said those who matter don't care and those who care don't matter!

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Cheers

Winch

"Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow I shall fear no evil for thou art with me. And together we'll kick ANY bugs ASS!"
You know who you are!

Lmao! that would be funny to see! I'm also going to make a point of over styling Abi in pink for Race for life this year! thats right folks, running 5k for cancer in Abi XD

I must witness this!, Prepare the video camera!!! haha

Awesome!

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Lt. Melissa L. Klassen, ALG
AL Colonial Admin. - Executive Officer (XO) -- 2021-2022
RCCM | Royal Canadian Colonial Marines - Commanding Officer (CO) -- 2021-2022

Read the AL Charter Rules & Regulations: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1i3gd9QUyIqI_6rfk8kpxspbKU-JT4MBAjLPxfCkvGJ8

Maybe take a lesson from the movie we all know and love?

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Anytime anywhere? lol

Rex, anyone who has the weakness of character that they cant except someone who is welling so stand out from the crowd to do something they love and doesnt harm anyone is not worth give two Sh*ts about. From what I've read on here you have the backing and support of the AL members. I say let Abi keep the coller and teach her to flip the bird to all those losers who says stupid sh*t.
take care and we are also here to support.

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AJ "Gunner" Martin
A06/TQ0.0.42145E1




"I'm ready, man check it out. I am the ultimate badass! state of the badass art! You do not want to frak with me."

I really hope you keep the collar Rex, its as unique a part of you as Abi is.

But I totally understand why you would consider taking it off. Insults can sting, even if you have a thick skin.

Just consider this - If some people are that thick, that at no point during the slow, grinding formation of an insult in their tiny minds, is any consideration given - even with the pink collar and small, feminine stature lighting the way to the correct assumption like one of Heathrow's runways - that the person inside may be the other type of the two sexes on the planet. Imagine being that stupid. I mean proper, left and right written on your shoes stupid.

Try thinking that. And then realise that they are that f**kwitted that to actually listen to anything that spills, foaming, from their fish-like gupping mouths would actually be a waste of the hairs vibrating in the inner ear.

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MSgt Matt Bradley 'Crashdown' (Formerly Mattb)
A12/TQ2.0.82145E1
CO UKCM 13th Regt. 1st Batt. 'Freebooters'
"There are very few problems that cannot be solved through a suitable application of high explosives."